THE MINI-DIVORCE
Have you come across the term "mini- divorce"?
and, no . I am NOT going crazy.
Mini divorce is something, that, Prevents A Real Divorce From Happening.
Wait, don't leave yet!..
Want to have a Mini Divorce? Just need to be a lil creative.
In your man's case, tell him your Male boss is Stronger.
In your woman's case, um, just tell her shes ugly OR tell her, that her Best friend is prettier :D
Okay moving on quickly from my Garbage talks,
This relationship advice for couples is useful if you want to make your partner experience the feelings of divorce (If they are keen on getting one), particularly loss, hopelessness and failure. These emotions shine a bright light on love and isolate it. It shows them how much you mean to them and how little love they might have been giving to you. It may be harsh, but it does work.
*Did you know there are 100 divorces every hour in the U.S?!
(I am guessing that's more frequent than India and China Producing babies every hour, combined.)
(I am guessing that's more frequent than India and China Producing babies every hour, combined.)
This is just to snap out of the embedded conclusion about your relationship, in your head AND to break your usual thinking pattern.
Riiiiiight.. ~:/
OK. let me tell you a Story.
" Patrick is married to his wife, Elena. (who else ? right -_-). They have a son together. His psychology degree, combined with his real-life experience in his own marriage has turned him into an accidental relationship adviser amongst his friends and colleagues.
Patrick is at a point where he has pre-decided (subconsciously) that,whatever Elena says is annoying.
The moment Elena talks, Patrick's mind receives signals that tell him something annoying has taken place. ( he has fed the data "Elena is annoying" into his mind. remember?).
The moment Elena talks, Patrick's mind receives signals that tell him something annoying has taken place. ( he has fed the data "Elena is annoying" into his mind. remember?).
Patrick meets Lisa, his new co-worker. Lisa is unlike Elena ( ofc no two people are the same).
Since Lisa and Partick don't share mutual commitments, they feel they have more freedom of speech here THAN with their spouses.
The feel might be the same, but here Patrick did not feed wrong signals to his brain in Lisa's case, hence he is more willing to hear her out at the same time more forgiving.
Mind is such a wicked thing ain't it >:| BA BA BA CUT THE CRAPPP..
sorry.
sorry.
Now Patrick is at a point where he has frequently had his mind send him wrong signals, tricking him into believing that it has crossed his Threshold with Elena.
What next? Patrick decides to get a divorce."
Now there are two possibilities.
1. Patrick and Elena go ahead and get a Divorce.
2. Patrick and Elena break out of this Vicious cycle and save their marriage.
OFC Lisa is not going to help here. She is a twisted , Manipulative, evil lady who came with an intention of Marrying Patrick because hes Rich, sending his son to boarding school after ill treating him for several days, and having kids of her own with Patrick..Pushing Patrick off his Wheel Chair during his old age...Have him break his arm as an old revenge for snatching her candy with THAT arm during their office days..
Sorry i got carried away with my plot :/
Now quickly rushing back to the main topic before you conclude something about me : 'S,
Okay. So most couple here fall prey to this vicious cycle and get a divorce :/
Some smart people go for a Mini Divorce. Which is nothing but a mind game.
*Did you know A 99-year-old man divorced his 96-year-old wife after 77 years of marriage because he discovered an affair she had in the 1940's?
Errr :/ for what joy!?
..Anyway You can read about his Story CLICK HERE.
So Patrick and Elena go for a Mini Divorce.
" Patrick has finally snapped out of his Thinking Pattern, He used to think Elena was annoying. His mind sent him signals. His brain wanted him to put a Full stop to the Annoyance.
Now the mission has been accomplished, Elena is not a part of his life.
They are on a small divorce . They are not allowed to talk.The annoying Elena is out.
It takes a few days for Patrick's mind to change, the pattern to break, slowly the realization seeps in.
He begins to miss ELENA.
He tends to reflect on the past mistakes..until..
He one day realizes his mistake."
Here, what Patrick needed to do was break free from his Viscous thinking pattern, and that's EXACTLY what the Mini Divorce helped him do. Which would not have been possible with having ELENA around all the time.
*It seems Einstein's Nobel Prize money went to his ex-wife as divorce settlement. (Poor Chap! ).
Click Here if you are interested to know more about Einstein's Divorce Settlement.
Okay so before you ever consider divorce, and if you have children,
consider these,
Make sure You don't win a nobel prize, or If you do, make sure you don't divorce your wife . If not,make sure that you don't have to pay a divorce settlement.
hehehe...emmm? :'/
Divorce facts related to children:
Children living with both parents one after the other tend to be healthier than children of divorce living with the same parent.
Infants do not understand what is happening when their parents divorce. The changes in the parents emotions and energy levels reflect on them negatively.
Preschool children might think they are to blame for the divorce. They often fear to be abandoned.
Pre-adolescents know what divorce is. There greater sense of self awareness amplifies the pain because they lack coping skills.
For teens a divorce can be very stressful due to the many changes for their daily life. They fear the future. They need solid parental support when they reach adulthood.
Divorce counseling for children can be beneficial when they get lower school grades than before the divorce started, when they are stressed or when they become angry more often without a clear cause.
*Having twins or triplets increases the risk of divorce by 17%.
(HOW does that even make sense?!)
Anyway,
Before you leave, read Ten interesting facts about Marriage and Divorce.
So Patrick and Elena go for a Mini Divorce.
" Patrick has finally snapped out of his Thinking Pattern, He used to think Elena was annoying. His mind sent him signals. His brain wanted him to put a Full stop to the Annoyance.
Now the mission has been accomplished, Elena is not a part of his life.
They are on a small divorce . They are not allowed to talk.The annoying Elena is out.
It takes a few days for Patrick's mind to change, the pattern to break, slowly the realization seeps in.
He begins to miss ELENA.
He tends to reflect on the past mistakes..until..
He one day realizes his mistake."
Here, what Patrick needed to do was break free from his Viscous thinking pattern, and that's EXACTLY what the Mini Divorce helped him do. Which would not have been possible with having ELENA around all the time.
*It seems Einstein's Nobel Prize money went to his ex-wife as divorce settlement. (Poor Chap! ).
Click Here if you are interested to know more about Einstein's Divorce Settlement.
Okay so before you ever consider divorce, and if you have children,
consider these,
Make sure You don't win a nobel prize, or If you do, make sure you don't divorce your wife . If not,make sure that you don't have to pay a divorce settlement.
hehehe...emmm? :'/
Divorce facts related to children:
Children living with both parents one after the other tend to be healthier than children of divorce living with the same parent.
Infants do not understand what is happening when their parents divorce. The changes in the parents emotions and energy levels reflect on them negatively.
Preschool children might think they are to blame for the divorce. They often fear to be abandoned.
Pre-adolescents know what divorce is. There greater sense of self awareness amplifies the pain because they lack coping skills.
For teens a divorce can be very stressful due to the many changes for their daily life. They fear the future. They need solid parental support when they reach adulthood.
Divorce counseling for children can be beneficial when they get lower school grades than before the divorce started, when they are stressed or when they become angry more often without a clear cause.
*Having twins or triplets increases the risk of divorce by 17%.
(HOW does that even make sense?!)
Anyway,
Before you leave, read Ten interesting facts about Marriage and Divorce.
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Stay tuned until next time.Thanks for Reading.
-Mia
Stay tuned until next time.Thanks for Reading.
-Mia
